I know what girls want...💕

First of all.....drum roll ...please....I passed my Pop Pilates final evaluation! Yay!! I am estatic that after all the perfecting, forgetting, remembering, working out until I was shaking and boardline abusing my friendship because I wanted the video to be perfect. I love you Andrew and we did it! ❤ ahh just what I really wanted for Valentine's Day, sweet satisfaction.. Anyways..more about that in the next weeks! So, what do girls want? It's Valentines Day and ideally there is someone we wish we were spending the day with or, you're like me and I just want to do Pop Pilates and love myself all day lol, granted I am on that all natural I am starting the career I've been dreaming of high. 

Well when you're looking for something it helps to have an idea 💡of what you're looking for. 

So what kind of guy do you want? What kinds of guys are there?

I divide them into my angels and my devils.

If I choose an angel I know I will always have someone who will never let me fall, who will inspire me to be better, do more, give more, be more, see the best in myself and other people, push me and motivate me no matter where I'm at at the time, he will be a man of his word, and a man who consults other men and the bible when making decisions in his life, I would never be quite sure that I have him because I know just how great he is and all that he has to offer any woman would be happy to have.

 He most likely choses his battles carefully and may avoid conflict if he deems it emotionally driven or not worth it but he will stand for what he believes in and put everything including his sanity into it, if it means enough. He would plan what he wants out of a relarionship and strategically decide what is in both our best interest even when that isn't being together all the time. 

Sounds great huh..but... 

If I choose my lil devil then he would be sexy, seductive, mysterious, most likely mysterious because I would always be wondering what he hasn't yet told me as a fleeting thought of course because as he so charmingly would point out, there are so much more enjoyable and constructive things that we could ponder about together ❤. And of course there would be no limit to what's possible because you've seen with your own eyes how he can make a crowd practically melt in his hand with just a taste of the brilliance you've witnessed. He is the one you didn't know you even wanted or could of thought you needed until you feel that sweet relief of, "why don't you take a day off" you work too hard, let me handle some of this.  He is the one who makes it okay and down right nearly irresistible to have more fun, it can feel like your obligation if he's really good lol. 

ou will probably have to make sure he calls on mother's day, and is a role model for his nephews. He will be quick to defend you in a fight regardless of what it's about because it's not just about you, its about his image to, which means you also have to live up to whatever part of that image you play. He is fun likes and is good at keeping situations light. Hopefully he does have some good morals or someone he gives some power to keep him grounded, balanced, and generally harmless, especially when he's going through something.

So, he is who he is, and he makes it look good, even when he's down, the angel, will find greater purpose in his suffering by making the bounce back greater than it was before the setback. The devil is down to enjoy the ride, the passion in which he goes down with will either be completely hidden and the blow up will be so much about hidding things that you either of you can argue passionately with all the emotion of fear, shame, betrayal, and uncertainty, without him necessarily even having to face any setback before he uses all of that muchness to fix or conqour whatever it was and you will likely be the angel. 

So then the next thing to consider is, what's more important who my man is as a person, or who I become when I'm with him? Being the angel in the couple is not to be underestimated, walking around your apartment feeling like you're walking on water is awesome, I'm sure every kid wants to think their mother is an angel as well. 

Plus when you meet this guy you will feel like "I didn't know that I was starving until I tasted you 🎶" um because when was the last time you met someone who made it a priority to make life more fun, sexier, and more indulgent? 

Being a devil to your angel counterpart can also be fun if you can get over the stigma of being the "bad" one, it's almost like sliding into a seat that was memory foam made just for your butt lol. Biblically, women are naturally the ones meant to be the sexual temptation, the one thing that will keep a man from showing up for church on Sunday morning (because let's face it, who wants to get up when all this is laying in bed with you) the kind of girl to tempt a guy to pick up everything he owns to move to Los Angeles and pursue his dreams because deep down, how could you live with the contrary, be the reason he hits retirement without taking the big risks to make even the silliest dream a reality? To a lesser extreme you get to be the one to decide when we've done too much, tried too hard, when it's time to have more fun, leave the family dinner a little early etc. You can have a little more fun, because after all you didn't try to pass yourself off as an angel and we all gotta play our parts.

So with a devil I can be inspired to Do More for myself, after all I deserve to be cared for, and feeling cared for, makes you fall even more in love. Or being with an angel I can be inspired to Do More for the world, to be confident I can leave everywhere in the world better than I found it.